If I had just one more chance, I’d take all my wrongs and make them right
We all go through this. We all experience that horrible reflection when we say; if I could do it all again I wouldn’t do it the way I did. Is it me? Is there really something that bad about me? And it doesn’t matter what anybody tells you because you’re so utterly convinced that it is you and that there is something wrong with you. But if we all think that, then there is something wrong with all of us. We all have skeletons in the closet, things we wish were different about ourselves, unsaid things we can’t say out loud and weak spots. It’s so weird, we make decisions and act a certain way because they seem like the right thing to do in the moment. Yet afterwards we can be overwhelmed by feelings of guilt, regret and self-loathing.
A true woman will never be fully satisfied by her hair or her body. No matter how intelligent she is, she will want others to think she is beautiful physically. Any girl who tells you that she doesn’t care about how she is perceived is lieing. Yes, any press is good press, but we’d all rather be told that we’re gorgeous than to be pointed at and mocked for our gap teeth, small breasts and flabby stomachs.
We all have feelings but we don’t all have the same wants or needs. Sometimes, in a relationship, two people can be so right for each other and look great together, but if one doesn’t subside to the others needs completely- it’s never going to work. We can’t change people, they can only change themeselves. All we can really hope for is that our flaws don’t overshadow our goodness and that our imperfections can make us perfect. Think about it, you could love somebody so much; a friend, a partner, a parent or teacher; yet all it takes is a difference of opinion and suddenly that person isn’t the guardian angel you imagined them to be. We’re human, we were built to be dissatisfied and it is this innate feeling of regret, dissatisfaction and ability to reason, that gets us where we are. Without it, we would still be cavemen.
Always tell the people you love, that you love them. Because, one day, they may not be around anymore for u to say it to. Always be thankful for what you have instead of wishfully pondering on what could be if you had gone down a different road. Easier said than done, I know, but I think all this says something quite wonderful about human beings. We feel things, and I’m not talking physical touch. We get churns in our gut when we are nervous, our hearts sink when we hear bad news, we speak faster when we are excited and our eyes light up when we are happy. All this, because of what we feel inside. It’s fascinating… Well, I think so anyway.
Never regret anything you ever did because at that time, it was exactly what you wanted
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